I think "atheist" is a self defeating label because for my mind, the atheist is supposed to be free of this incessant need to apply a label to themselves that apparently defines them like many other people do. eg. Republicans, democrats, christians, hindus, muslims ford drivers, barbeque sauce lovers, rah rah rah rah... at least with those things, we can point at something and say, at least partially, "Oh that is what an xyz is about!"
But for atheism, there is nothing to point at, you can't point at a non-existent thing and say that that defines you.
So what is it that defines an atheist?
Is it a lack of belief in gods and/or the supernatural?
Ahem... No... that does not answer the question of what defines an *atheist*.
The word "atheist" literally means "without god" from the Greek "atheos" ... a- "without" + theos "god" .. right?
Well, that may be the definition behind *atheism* but that is not what defines the person that is the atheist, how can it?
How can a lack of something define you; the person, the character, the human being that is you??
There is a definite lack of mountain climbing in my life, so does that define who I am? No.
So how can a lack of something or even not participating in particular activities, define a person? It can't..
What defines the character of a person tends to be what that person actually does *have*, not what they *lack*.
So, what defines a person as being an atheist is that they *have* the ability to choose what to believe (in) or not, even if the atheist never makes a choice of what to actually believe, the atheist is free to be an individual and make up their own minds about what is and what is not when it comes to those big questions of god, life, the universe and everything.
A lack of belief does not define an atheist, the ability to make their own *choice* as to what to believe is what defines an atheist. The atheist is free to be their own person *without* having their thoughts supposedly based on some predefined way of thinking.
Morals, religions, gods, miracles, whatever... the atheist is defined by being free to believe whatever they want to make of all that stuff without a predefined explanation for the universe, without being burdened by stories that were told verbally thousands of years ago when we had a very rudimentary understanding of the universe...
Being an atheist is all about being yourself and making your own individual choices about the big questions in life, so why not start right at the beginning with you being an individual and refrain from choosing a label that inherently degrades your status as an individual *because* you have chosen to label yourself with something doesn't define you in the least....
that is to say, why even call yourself an "atheist" in the first place when being an atheist is all about being an individual? By calling yourself an atheist, you will set yourself into somebody else's predefined bucket of labels for people, perhaps even your own.